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Producer Anne-Marie Berger finds out what the Red Hat Society is all about during its founder's visit to St. Louis. The society began when Sue Ellen Cooper (also known as the Queen Mother), gave her friend a red hat and the poem "Warning." Now, there are more than 164 chapters of the Red Hat Society in the area.
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Red Hatter "FRAN" sings her words to a great song on our recent "Red Hat Cruise".




Global TV's coverage of Calgary's Chinook Center's Mall Crawl, April 25th.
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GETTING YOUR INFORMATION ON THE WEBSITE
When you are planning an event or simply wish to tell others about an event or occasion, write up the information as you would like to see it posted and send it to elaineh@hildavid.com. We will then put it on the website for you. Because of space limitations, we may have to edit the longer announcements.
Please feel free to submit other items for this page.

A REMINDER
Be sure to check and see when your chapter renewal is due so that you can keep on being a registered chapter.



For information to start your own chapter click on the Red Hat above for The Red Hat Society Homepage, then on the left side under How To Join, you will find all the information you need.
Happy Hatting!!





ORIGIN OF THE RED HAT SOCIETY

The Red Hat Society resulted from the giving of one birthday gift. In November 1997, Sue Ellen Cooper, (Fullerton, California) presented her dear friend, Linda Murphy, with a red hat and a copy of the poem "Warning" by Jenny Joseph. The orginial intent was that Linda hang the hat on a hook next to the framed poem, as a decorative reminder to loosen up as she got older. The gift was a hit! Other friends of Sue Ellen expressed an interest in receiving the same gift as they reached their 50th birthdays. On April 25, 1998, dress in purple and their red hats the ladies went to a tearoom. This was the brginning of our Red Hat Scoiety.


WARNING
by Jenny Joseph

When I am an old woman,I shall wear purple,
With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we've no money for butter.
I shall sit down on the pavement when I'm tired
And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells
And run my stick along the public railings
And make up for the sobriety of my youth.
I shall go out in my slippers in the rain
And pick the flowers in other people's gardens
And learn to spit.
You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat
And eat three pounds of sausages at a go
Or only bread and a pickle for a week
And hoard pens and pencils and beermats and things in boxes.
But now we must have clothes that keep us dry
And pay our rent and not swear in the street
And set a good example for the children.
We will have friends to dinner and read the papers.
But maybe I ought to practise a little now?
So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised
When suddenly I am old and start to wear purple.

Written out by Elizabeth Lucas"


RED HAT SOCIETY MISSION STATEMENT
"We are a global society of women approaching 50 or beyond that connects and supports women in their pursuit of Fun, Friendship, Freedom and Fulfillment.
Fun...to celebrate life at every age.
Friendship...to solidify and expand the bonds of sisterhood. Freedom...to discover and explore new interests.
Fulfillment...to fully realize our personal potential.
By maintaining a thriving social community. amd offering a variety of services and group experiences, the RHS encourages it members to get the most out of life."



RED HAT PROMISE

The Red Hat Society will open doors to a better tomorrow for women of all ages, adding Fun, Friendship, Freedom and Fulfillment to their lives. Each member can expect to be welcomed into our sisterhood and to be treated with diginity and respect. Together, we will extend the hand of friendship to women across the globe."



ONE FLAW IN WOMEN

Women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
but they hold happiness, love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don't take "no" for an answer
when they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about
a birth or a wedding.
Their heart s break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss
can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes,
sizes and colors.
They'll drive, fly, walk,
run or e-mail you
to show how much they care about you
The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have the compassion and ideas.
They give moral support to their family and friends.
Women have vital things to say and everything to give

HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN . ...
IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.



IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER
By Erma Bombeck (written after she found out she was dying of cancer)

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I wasn't there for the day.
I would have talked less and listened more.
I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, the sofa faded.
I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.
I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.
I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains.
I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.
I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.
Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I would have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.
I would never have said "later, now go get washed up for dinner. There would have been more 'I love you's More 'I'm sorry's.'
But mostly,given another shot at life, I would seize every minute, look at it and really see it...live it and never give it back.
STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!!
Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more or who's doing what.
Instead let's cherish the relationships we have with those who love us.

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HAT FACTS

One of the most frequently asked questions about hats is “what style of hat should I wear to suit my face”? The golden rule is to wear a hat that you feel comfortable and confident in, a style that suits the occasion.
If you have a small face it is best not to wear a hat with a very large crown and brim
If you have a large face, do not wear a crown and brim that hugs your face, these will emphasize your features.
People who wear glasses often choose hats with swept-up brims, as this takes the attention away from the glasses and does not come into contact with them as much as a down-turned brim would.

HATIQUETTE

(You've heard of etiquette....)
1. Never touch someone's hat. Don't do it. Not the hat. The only person who'd touch a woman's hat is someone who doesn't wear hats.
2. Admire hats from a distance. There's no excuse for knocking someone's hat, even by accident. Be careful if you're sitting behind a Hat Queen.
3. Don't get too close when two Hat Ladies hug. Both have to tilt their head all the way to the side, in opposite directions, and leave space in between.
4. Don't ask to borrow someone's hat. (Some ladies say they'd lend their children before they'd lend their hats. They know their children know their way home, but their hats might not)!
5. Don't get jealous. Women who love hats are happy to see a hat that looks good on someone else. Women who wear hats know who they are.
6. Develop a hattitude in order to wear your hat well. Enjoy the fact that men always help a lady in a hat first.


HANDLING YOUR HAT

- Never pick up a hat by the crown. Doing so crushes the crown and can cause it to become misshapen.
- Never wear your hat unprotected in inclement weather.


MATCHING FACE AND BODY SHAPES WITH HAT

Oval: You can wear most any hat shape. However, hats with large brims are the most flattering. If you're short or petite, narrow or proportioned brims look best. Wear them straight across the brow or across your hairline.
Round: Your face needs a more square-shaped crown with an asymmetrical brim. Set the brim at an angle to add length to your face. The crown should not be narrower than your face unless it is balanced by the trim. Avoid hats with rounded crowns.
Square: Narrow your face with an asymmetrical brim and a stunning crown. Slant the brim or simply tilt your hat to soften square edges. Experiment with adding earrings.
Oblong: You will be happiest with a full brim. Look for trim that lifts the eye or a brim that sweeps the sides or the back. Avoid tall, narrow shapes. Your hat should bring balance to your shoulders and the rest of your body.
Triangular: Emphasize your eyes and draw focus away from your strong jaw line. Find a hat with a short, uneven brim and a lofty crown. You can also wear a rolled or upswept brim, but wear it straight across the brow or across the hairline. Steer clear of hats with pointed crowns or sharp angles.
Heart-Shaped: You'll want to draw attention upwards. Wear a small hat high on your head or something with eye-catching trim.. Avoid large, heavy shapes.
All of these guidelines have a logical basis; you're selecting a hat with a shape other than your facial shape. In ALL cases, the crown should NEVER be narrower than your cheekbones!
Height of Lady: The shorter a woman, the narrower her hat brim should be. A short woman wearing a broad-brimmed hat can look like a mushroom. Tall women look better with flatter crowns, while a higher crown can make a short woman appear taller.
Height of Hat: The height of a hat should be proportionate to the body; its width shouldn't be wider than the shoulders...unless it's an Easter bonnet:>)
Don't forget to take your overall physique into account: A tall/big woman should wear a wide brim, since a small brim might make her look larger. A tiny woman should wear a narrow, upturned brim, or no brim at all, to get the illusion of height.

THE GOLDEN RULE, WHICH SUPERCEDES ALL THE RULES ABOVE, IS TO WEAR A HAT YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE AND CONFIDENT IN, IN A STYLE WHICH SUITS THE OCCASION. IF YOU FEEL YOU LOOK GOOD WEARING A CERTAIN HAT, THEN YOU PROBABLY DO!

BALANCING HAT WITH OTHER FEATURES

Hair: There is no feature more important than your hair when it comes to hat wearing. Your hat should compliment, not compete, with your hair. While you should never be talked into hiding your hair under your hat, give serious consideration to minimizing your hair vs your hat. After all, why bother to wear a hat if you want to emphasize your hair-style? Let the shape of your hat determine whether or not, or how much, to let your hair show.
Then follow these guidelines:
1. Hats worn all day solve problems; they don't create them (i.e. hat hair). Think about it ladies: your hair doesn't look the same ("perfect") from dawn to dusk. If you're wearing a hat (and don't take it off 'til you get home), you will look "perfect" from dawn to dusk!
2. If you're still concerned about "hat hair," here are two solutions:
If your hair is long enough, clip it up with a barrette or spring clip, then put on your hat. When you take off your hat, release the clip. Voila! There is still fullness in your hair.
If your hair is shorter, it can be lifted with hair spray or gel.
3. Hair tucked behind your ears and/or put up into the hat will look the most flattering. "Clean" your hair off your face.
4. Hair longer than chin length should be styled into a chignon or simple knot at the nape of the neck.
5. Hair that is a "fringe" (e.g. bangs, "sideburns") can be seen if you choose a hat you can wear across your hairline or hats with a short back brim. But do not let the bangs conflict with the design of the hat.
6. The SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT tip regarding hair and hats is: You should all have an image of what that means: your hat should not be placed in the middle of your head so that only the underside of the hat is seen. Pull it down!
7. When the weather outside is frightful, you can still look delightful by simply selecting hats that are stylish as well as practical. Wear your hat all day long and enjoy the compliments. Better yet, start a fashion trend that lasts all year long.

Glasses: Wearing glasses with hats.
1. Wear your hat with the brim turned up.
2. Choose brims that swoop up on one side as well as asymmetrical shapes.
3. Avoid hats that just sit there!

HAT SIZING

The female’s average head size is 22 ½”
To measure your head properly, start from the fullest part of the back of the head around to slightly above your ears ending at an inch above your eyebrow, while not pulling the tape to tight. This should give you your proper hat size.
cm..........inches.........universal.......us/can
53..........20 7/8..........X-small.............6 1/2
54..........21 1/4..........small................6 3/4
55..........22 1/8..........medium.............7
57..........22 1/2..........medium.............7 1/8
58..........22 7/8..........med/large..........7 1/4
59..........23 1/4..........large................7 3/8
60..........23 3/4..........large................7 1/2
61..........24 1/4..........x-large.............7 5/8

MAKING IT FIT BETTER

If you keep touching your hat and pushing it up out of your forehead and off your ears or if it blows off with the slightest breeze, it does not fit properly!
Don't despair: there are some logical, practical, inexpensive solutions:

Use safety pins (one or two will do) on the inside ribbon of the crown to tighten the fit; that is where the expression "pinhead" came from.

Purchase weather stripping or Dr. Scholl's pads and place them inside the crown.

Go to a store that carries VCR's. Find the pads used under them so they don't scratch tables, etc. These self-adhesive pads are thick and firm enough without being hurtful to the head. Get the long narrow shape, about 2 inches long, approximately 10 per package. DON'T get the dots. If you go to Wal-Mart, these strips will be found in the hardware section, near the picture hangers and other pads used to keep items from scratching surfaces.

Leave your hat on for at least 5 minutes: If you feel pressure, it is too small. If it slips or shifts when you turn your head side to side, it is too large.
If you don't jam your hat against your scalp, it won't flatten your hair.
A hat should have at least a 4" brim to shade your eyes as well as your skin.

Follow this rule of thumb: If you can slide an index finger between your head and the hat, it fits correctly.

DECORATING YOUR HAT

Some of us are better at finding things than making them. If you are one of those talented ladies who can create your own original designs from a basic hat, this section's for you!
There are few crises that can't be completely forgotten, at least for a little while, while you're trimming a hat.
Working with different types of hats:
Natural straw hats: tend to be fairly stiff and tend to shed. They don't easily reshape.
Mixed fiber hats: have more "give" in the crown, allowing for changing the position of the brim and packing
Finding the right trim:
1. Watch for items that might look interesting on a hat, e.g. Christmas garland, broaches, belt buckles, feathers
2. Utilize all types of hats as your base, e.g. men's hats
3. Work with unusual materials, e.g. floral wire to hold pieces of material; vials to fill with fresh flowers; oil paint to draw designs; spray paint to change the color of the hat entirely; paper towel rolls to hold hat while decorating it
4. Know where to go for the best buy, e.g. thrift shops, as well as the more upscale suppliers
5. Pluck a few silk flowers from those bouquets for the cemetery
6. Take a smaller hat and fit it over the crown of another. Two hats can be better than one!
7. Choose a theme to make a memorable hat, e.g. 1st of July; Kentucky Derby
8. Stiffen flowers by: making a mix of white glue (the kind used for woodworking) and water (one teaspoon glue to a little bit of water). Don't thin it out too much; generously paint it on to the petals and let dry OR use clear matte finish Krylon (available at art stores, craft centers, and paint departments)

REMEMBER - A little ingenuity, a glue gun, and a mirror go a long way in stretching the pocketbook and increasing the number of hats in your closet, without sacrificing style. In most cases, it enhances it.
-Trimmings must be securely fastened with either a secret safety pin or two fixed from inside or simple basting with thread.
-If your hat matches your shoes and purse and gloves, you are a HEAD of the rest. Being "coordinated" gives you the most bang for your buck. And you lucky, handy Ladies have the talent to get it.

CLEANING YOUR HAT

Invest in a good brim brush--one with dark bristles for dark colored hats and one with light colored bristles for light colored hats.
Brush your hat(s) regularly to keep dust from settling into the fibers. Light colored hats should be brushed more often. Clean your brushes after each use -- you do not want to transfer fibers of one color hat to a hat of another color.
To keep decorations on your hats clean and fresh: steam the hat over a pot of boiling water for a few seconds until trimmings soften. Smooth and hold in position until cool.
To restore luster to straw hats: rub gently with sandpaper. Brush them regularly with a soft brim brush or whisk broom. A soft damp cloth can also be used to maintain straw
To remove dirty marks from straw: gently wipe with a damp cloth. If this action does not succeed, then use dry cleaning fluid. Use sparingly. Be sure to test it first on a small piece of the hat that will not be seen. Apply the fluid with cotton wool. Do not over wet the area, since you could remove the varnish or dye.
To remove liquid stains: Enlist the services of a professional hat cleaner

To clean felt hats: - Fine sandpaper (or soft brush), then rub softly
- "Gonzo" used for picking up pet hair
- Dry cleaning fluid (e.g. "Renuzit" and "Energine") placed on a soft cloth with a short nap
- Art gum eraser rubbed in a counter clock-wise motion to the grain of the brim
- Fuller's earth used to clean away oily stains that are not of a liquid nature; use a plastic or rubber sponge to clean away the residue
- Scout Hat Cleaner, purchased from a milliner

To clean before packing: use a hat brush before packing it away in acid free tissue for the summer. Brush the hat carefully (in clockwise direction), following the nap.

To prevent hats from wilting and protect from raindrops: buy inexpensive hats, then spray them with clear acrylic on both sides. Use the flat finish.
To get the best cleaning economically: try "Dryel," a safe, convenient way to care for dry clean only items in your dryer!
To get the best cleaning of all: take it to a professional hat cleaner and/or milliner.
STAY AWAY FROM CLOTHES CLEANING ESTABLISHMENTS (many do NOT have the tools for cleaning and reblocking a hat).

REPAIRING YOUR HAT

Take good care of them in the first place! Keep them out of direct sunlight; they'll fade. Do everything you can to keep them from being squashed or crumpled.
Dented hat: Boil a kettle over a gas or electric range; do not use an electric kettle, since you need a constant supply of steam and must insure the kettle does not boil dry. When the kettle is steaming freely, turn down the heat just enough to keep steam coming out of the spout with a little force. Position the affected area over the jet of steam and allow it to penetrate the straw or felt, keep moving the hat around in order for the heat and steam to spread evenly in and around the material. Remove the hat from the steam after 20-30 seconds. Quickly push out the dent or rework the shape with the fingers, blow on the repaired patch to cool it, and the material will stiffen. Do not overdo the steaming as you can distort the hat, especially if you are working on a sharp edge or fine detail, try not to "overwork" any area and work in small stages.
It is also possible to stiffen your hat by steaming the felt or straw thoroughly and allowing the hat to cool. The stiffener will soften when hot but re-bonds and hardens when cooled, this is due to the nature of the stiffening agent used in hat making.
Velour: Use a stiff brush to restore nap while steaming; can even iron velour
Straw hat (where texture isn't too stiff or too flimsy): Stuff crown with wet towels and let it set for a few hours, head down. Then flip hat over and fill brim with rolled up wet towels. Once again, let it sit for a few hours. Wrinkles are gone; brim is straightened; hat is like new.
Damage to straw hats can be ironed out successfully using an iron set to #3 (a high setting will burn the straw), do not allow the iron to stay in one area for too long; keep it moving over the damaged area. If it's a flat brim, lay the hat on an ironing board, if the area. Sometimes the repair will be easy and will only require a few passes with the iron, but with more difficult repairs it will be necessary to use the iron to apply heat and steam, then using the fingers, quickly manipulate the straw into shape while the material is still hot.
BENT BRIMS: Bend brim wires back into shape and stitch down loose trims as soon as damage is noticed.
Felt Hats: Do not iron felt hats. Use steam only to effect a repair on felt hats.
Wet hat: Let it dry naturally, use a "hat retainer" to prevent shrinkage in the head band area.
Veil that has become crushed: Hold over teapot
Silk flowers that have been mashed: Fluff, then apply hair spray to hold the shape

PACKING AND STORING YOUR HATS

Sure wish we could hang our hats as you would hang your purses!
Since it's not usually feasible... here are some tips on hanging them INSIDE...starting with THE single most important one:
NEVER PLACE YOUR HAT ON ITS BRIM!
(Either use a hat stand or place it upside down on a shelf and stuff the crown with tissue paper to hold its shape)
Always store your hat in a dry, cool place.
Always store unused hats with crowns supported, preferably placed in a hat box and put in a warm dry place, stuff the crown with tissue paper, put the hat into a plastic bag and store on the top of a wardrobe.
Do not stack one hat on top of the other. Doing so can cause the hat's shape to be distorted. It will definitely crush the trim.
For long storage periods, place hat in hat box (cardboard or cloth covered).
For temporary storage, use a hat stand.
Either place brimmed hats upside down or put tissue paper inside the crown of the hat.
Hats with upturned or pancake-flat brims may be stored flat, right side up
Hats with down-turned, dipped or sloped brims are best stored "floating" on a ball of tissue lightly stuffed into the crown
Some square-crowned (flat top) hats may be stored upside down.
Store hats so that there is not undue pressure on any delicate trimmings; use a hat stand, if there are elaborate decorations or feathers which stick up above the crown
Remember: Your goal is to keep the weight of the hat off the brim.

There are a variety of ways, based on the number of hats you own and your pocketbook.
Hat boxes: They protect a hat from crowding, dust, dust mites, light, moisture, and heat. You may wish to add a sachet of perfumed mothballs
Hat stands: Either buy a decorative one or save the stands that hold paper towels. Be sure to protect your hat from strong light and dust often with a soft brush
Big clear (transparent) containers (from Walmart); as opposed to cardboard, so they'll block out moisture

FOR TRAVEL

If you just want hats for sightseeing, invest in the crushable variety!
If you have special hats that go with special ensembles for special events where you're headed, fill the crown with tissue paper and put it in a plastic bag. Place it top side up in the middle of your suitcase. Surround brim with tissue paper or rolled up underwear and socks.


 
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