Alot of people tell me that the hardest thing about leaving their lover is that there will never be anyone that loves them like they did. For me I completely understand because I was so wrapped up in the dysfuntion of it all. I too felt like what was told to me was love, was actually just abuse instead. I have questionnaire I'd like you to answer honestly and then we will discuss it afterwards. This is a true test of love.

1.Do they have patience with you?

2. Are they kind hearted toward you?

3. Are they overly jealous when there is no cause to be?

4. Do they brag about the things they bought you or have done for you?

5. Do they overly care about the way they and/or you look?

6. Are they rude?

7. Are they selfish, putting them first?

8. Do they get angry easy?

9. Do they throw up past wrongs in your face?

10. Do they get a rise out of being cruel?

11.Do they lie?

12. Do you feel they protect you?

13. Do you trust them?

14. Do you share the same hopes and dreams?

15. Do you split up alot,or are you a team that makes it through even in tough times?

16. Do they fail you?

This was made from scripture. 1COR 13:4-8 says...LOVE IS PATIENT,LOVE IS KIND. IT DOES NOT ENVY,IT DOES NOT BOAST, IT IS NOT PROUD. IT IS NOT RUDE, IT IS NOT SELF-SEEKING, IT IS NOT EASILY ANGERED, IT KEEPS NO RECORDS OF WRONGS. LOVE DOES NOT DELIGHT IN EVIL BUT REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH. IT ALWAYS PROTECTS, ALWAYS TRUSTS, ALWAYS HOPES, ALWAYS PERSERVERES. LOVE NEVER FAILS.