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BOARD
Felicity Swayze, Chair, Tunbridge
Kathy Nelson, Randolph
Eileen Murphy, Vershire
Lenora Kimball, Tunbridge
Maureen Moriarty, Tunbridge
Hannah Elle Lane, Braintree
STAFF
Linda Ingold, Executive Director
Judy Szeg, Educator/Office & Volunteer Coordinator
Sue Perreault, Legal Advocate
Justina Kenyon,DV Survivor Empowerment Coordinator

Links Section


Vermont Judiciary

2015-2016 Annual Report

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

Facebook

Vermont Law School

Vermont Network Against Domestic & Sexual Violence

Pride Center VT/SafeSpace

Futures Without Violence

Prevent IPV

Fairlee Marine

Youth Advocacy Task Force blog

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National Center for Domestic Violence, Trauma & MH

Mascoma Savings Bank Foundation

Granite United Way

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Your Local Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency

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Safeline, Inc. is located in central Vermont and serves domestic and sexual violence victims in Orange County and the northern Windsor towns of Sharon, Royalton, Bethel, Stockbridge and Rochester. Safeline runs a 24/7 toll free number that provides support, safety planning, information and referrals as well as in person support and legal, economic and medical advocacy. We are a 501(c)3.

SAFELINE'S MISSION: Safeline strives to end physical, emotional and sexual violence against women and children through direct service, education, advocacy and social change.

SAFELINE'S BOARD: Chair, Felicity Swayze, Tunbridge; Kathy Nelson, Randolph; Eileen Murphy, Vershire; Lenora Kimball, Tunbridge; Maureen Moriarty, Tunbridge and Hannah Elle Lane, Braintree

*If you are looking for services related to domestic violence, sexual assault, or stalking and do not live in Safeline's service area, visit The National Network To End Domestic Violence website to find your state coalition.*


 
Are you feeling distressed by the news recently? 

Coverage of sexual assault, locally and nationally, can be overwhelming for anyone (survivor or not) and Safeline is there to help. If you need support or someone to talk to, please call Safeline at 1-800-639-7233.

Second Dignity Drive at VLS Many thanks to If/When/How and the Vermont Law School community for the donations of feminine hygiene products and cash donations collected during the second Dignity Drive. These contributions are very important to the survivors of domestic and sexual violence served by Safeline. It is not commonly known that Three Squares, the Vermont food stamp program, and the Women, Infants and Children program do NOT cover these products. These products are very necessary and very expensive, especially if there are also adolescent girls in the household.

Mooncycle Yoga Another opportunity to donate menstrual products! Our friends at Milldale Farm Center for Wellness are holding a Mooncycle Yoga class on Sunday, October 21st from 4pm - 5pm. Their location is 1461 Blood Brook Road, Fairlee, VT 05045. The cost? Bring some Mooncycle products which will be donated to Safeline. Ladies, gather your goddess loved ones to support other local goddesses in our community with some of the basic needs of being a woman.

BACK TO SCHOOL

  • Safeline offers a program for school staff in-services about the impact of domestic violence on children and youth and how school staff can support students affected by domestic violence.
  • Bystanders of all ages can have a significant impact in reducing bullying and harassment. Safeline has a range of curricula, trainings and information available for school staff.
  • Safeline would be glad to present Wholesome Bodies for area school staff. The WholeSomeBodies curriculum increases adults' knowledge of healthy sexuality and increases their skills and motivation to model and teach heal;thy sexuality to the children and youth in their lives.
  • Would you like the youth you know to understand and be able to develop healthy relationships? Safeline has a range of curricula, trainings and information available.
  • Safeline's services are not only for adults. Youth are welcome to reach out for support and information, and may do so without giving their name or identifying information. Our toll free number is 1-800-639-7233

To find out more about these programs and resources, please call 802-685-7900, ext. 307 or email safelineinfo@safelinevt.org

EVERY month is Sexual Violence Awareness Month.

Though April is now over, we are mindfully leaving the sexual assault information on the website a little longer. The issue of sexual assault is not something relevant to only one month during the year, but throughout the year.

The national theme this year is EMBRACE YOUR VOICE. Follow this space for additional information.

HOW YOU TALK ABOUT SEXUAL VIOLENCE MATTERS: The things you say every day send a message about your beliefs and values. When you stand up for survivors of sexual violence, you send a powerful message that you believe and support them.

HOW YOUR WORDS AFFECT OTHERS:

  • Chances are someone you know is a survivor of sexual violence. They might not have told anyone out of fear of being blamed or judged.
  • If someone in your life is considering sharing something personal with you, they are likely listening to your opinions or attitudes for clues on how you will respond.
  • A comment or joke based on assumptions or stereotypes might not seem like a big deal, but it could make someone feel unsafe about sharing personal or painful things with you. For example: " I could never tell her what happened to me. She said if victims of sexual assault don't go to the police, then it wasn't serious."

WHAT CAN YOU DO?

  • Don't wait for a critical moment to say the right things. The words you choose every day communicate your values.
  • When you hear comments that blame victims or make light of sexual violence, speak up so others know you don't agree. Even if you don't have a perfect response, this show that you do not believe in stereotypes, you believe survivors and you are a safe person to talk to. For example: "That commercial made me uncomfortable. I don't know exactly why, but I think everyone should be treated with respect." or, "I don't think that's true - I believe people when they say that someone has hurt them."

EVERYDAY CONSENT People often think consent is only important when it comes to sex.

ASK FOR CONSENT WHEN TOUCHING

  • It is important to ask for consent before hugging, tickling, or other kinds of touch.
  • Ask sincerely so others understand that it is okay to say no.
  • For people who have experienced sexual abuse, any unexpected touch can be scary and traumatic. Others may just prefer more personal space.

RESPECT PRIVACY

  • Everyone has boundaries. Some people like to keep things about themselves private, while others are more open.
  • If someone shares personal information with you, it's important to ask what their boundaries are. For example: My cousin was assaulted and is afraid they will never feel okay again. Is it okay if I tell them that you're a survivor, too? It's all right if you are not comfortable with that."

ASK PERMISSION

  • Just like everyone has different boundaries about touch, everyone has different levels of comfort about sharing things online, like photos.
  • It is important to always ask before posting or tagging photos of someone on social media. For example: "This is a great picture of all of us! Is it okay if I share it online, or should I take another one without the kids in it? I know you don't often post photos of them."

SEX AND CONSENT

  • Sex without consent isn't sex. It's sexual assault.
  • Consent must be freely given. A person must understand what they are agreeing to, and they can change their mind at any time.
  • Consent needs to be clear and enthusiastic. The absence of "no" or silence does not mean "yes."
  • Past consent does not mean current or future consent.
  • When drugs or alcohol are involved, clear consent is not possible. A person who is intoxicated or impaired cannot give consent.

    HOW TO HANDLE THE "NO"

    • Whenever you are asking for someone's consent, they could say "no."
    • Accept the answer and move on. Don't pressure someone to change their mind.
    • It's okay to feel disappointed with a "no" answer. But always remember that respecting boundaries is the right thing to do.

    THINK ABOUT THE CHILDREN IN YOUR LIFE. Whether you're thinking of your child, grandchild, niece, nephew or friend's child, you want the to always feel safe and secure. Help kids feel safe by teaching them that the choices they make about their bodies deserve to be respected.

    WHAT IS CONSENT?

    • Consent means giving someone a choice about touch or actions and respecting the answer they give.
    • Practicing consent in how you interact with kids teaches healthy communication and that their body belongs to them.

    ASK FOR CONSENT

    • Ask for consent in everyday interactions. For example:"Do you want a hug goodbye today? We could also wave or high five." or, "Can I sit beside you while we read this book?"
    • Model that asking for consent is an ongoing process. For example: "Do you need a break from tickling or are tickles still okay with you?"

    LISTEN TO THE ANSWER

    • Nonverbal cues can be hard for young children to understand.
    • Modeling consent helps kids understand that the absence of a verbal "no" does not mean "yes." For example: "you're hiding behind your mom. It looks like you would rather wave goodbye to me today."

    ACCEPT "NO"

    • If you ask a child for a hug or kiss and they say "no," accept their answer cheerfully, even if you are disappointed.
    • Don't show anger or pout, even playfully - this sends mixed messages. For example: "Okay, no kiss today. See you later!"

    RELATIONSHIPS AND CONSENT

    • A child should never be forced to show physical affection to an adult, even if they are a relative or family friend. For example, "It's time to leave. How do you want to say goodbye?"
    • This idea could go against your family or cultural norms or be different than what you experienced as a child.
    • Think about ways you can uphold your values while also incorporating consent. For example, " Some people in our family give hugs and kisses to show their love, but you can show you love in other ways, if you want to, like a smile or kind words."

    INCEST

    From RAINN (Rape, Incest and Abuse National Network): If you have experienced sexual abuse by a family member, you are not alone - and what happened to you is not your fault. While it may be difficult to talk about, you should know that this is an issue that impacts many people. The majority of juvenile victims know the perpetrator, and approximately 34 percent of perpetrators in cases of child sexual abuse are family members. It is never too late to reach out for support. For survivors in Orange or northern Windsor Counties (Sharon, Royalton, Bethel, Stockbridge & Rochester), please call Safeline's toll free number at 1-800-639-7233. For survivors in other locations, please contact RAINN's hotline at 800-656-HOPE or online.rainn.org to reach the sexual violence program serving your town.

    Safeline is excited to announce our new logo!

    This new look reflects our ongoing mission as we strive to end domestic violence, sexual assault and stalking in Orange and northern Windsor counties. As we worked with Linda Mirabile from RavenMark, Inc., a central Vermont graphic design and communications firm, we needed a redesigned logo that would convey a feeling of safety and inclusion for the survivors we serve. We also wanted to show how Safeline works collaboratively with other organizations for a sense of network and community.

    The final logo design is suggestive of a quilt pattern (safety, comfort) with overlapping lines (networking) and rounded diamonds (community, people). The pattern does not say violence or abuse but rather is meant to convey a positive image of what Safeline does to help support and heal those we serve.

    The new image is dynamic, showing forward motion similar to the survivors Safeline assists. We are pleased that this logo will become a recognizable identity that people will associate with Safeline’s mission of advocacy, prevention, education and social change.

    Thank you for your ongoing support of Safeline's mission,
    Linda Ingold, Executive Director


    DONATE TO SAFELINE

    Did you know that you can safely make a credit card donation to Safeline through Paypal? We appreciate your support! Safeline is a 501(c)3.


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    Events & Opportunities

    ORANGE COUNTY DOMESTIC AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE TASK FORCE
    The Task Force will meet on the first Wednesday each month from 3:00pm - 4:30pm.

    The October meeting of the Task Force will be October 5th at the Capstone office, 12 Prince Street in Randolph. The Task Force will participate in a discussion about the renewal of certification for the Clara Martin Center's Domestic Violence Accountability Program. The public us welcome.

    To view minutes from previous OC Task Force meetings, click here.



    VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES

    Safeline has many types of volunteer opportunities. Following is a brief description of some of them.

    Hotline Volunteer - Answering Safeline hotline calls. We provide extensive training for hotline volunteers. By using available pagers, answering hotline calls is flexible and convenient, and you can safely and easily respond from your own home. When a volunteer is covering a hotline shift, Safeline staff are always available for backup with any questions or concerns.

    Community Outreach - Several types of activity fall within community outreach. We are always trying to better inform our communities about Safeline, our resources and also about the issues of domestic and sexual violence. We frequently need help with distributing poster, brochures, etc. throughout our area, and also with setting up and staffing tables or displays at area fairs and various community events.

    Clerical or Computer Work - We often need help in our office with various clerical functions such as copying or collating materials, stuffing or addressing envelopes, maintaining our website, etc.

    Building Maintenance - it is very useful to have someone help us with cleaning, mowing, small building repairs or various types of yard work.

    Fundraising - At various times, we do fundraising events such as our Annual Appeal, raffles, etc. We also need help gathering signatures on petitions for town appropriation requests or in having representatives who could provide information about Safeline at the annual Town Meetings.

    We would love to talk with you further about volunteering! Please contact Judy at (802) 685-7900, ext. 307 or at the email connection below.

     Services & Programs
    SERVICES

    JOB READINESS, EDUCATION & FINANCIAL SERVICES

    PROTECTION ORDER ASSISTANCE
    If you would like to apply for, or already have a Relief From Abuse Order or an Order Against Sexual Assault and Stalking, please call Safeline's toll free number, 800-639-7233, for information about:

    • What type of order to apply for
    • How to apply for an order
    • What to bring to a hearing
    • What to expect at a hearing
    • ...and your specific questions


    PROGRAMS

    Granite United Way
    Granite United Way approved a grant for Safeline’s “Support Through the Legal Maze” project. "Support Through the Legal Maze" provides guidance, information and advocacy that victims of domestic violence, sexual assault and stalking need when they go through the complicated court system. "Support Through the Legal Maze" provides vital services including referrals, assistance with filling out paper work and accompanying survivors to the sheriff's department and to court.

     
    Safeline's Wishlist
    Gas or food cards, diapers (small or large), toilet paper, paper towels, laundry detergent, sponges, deodorant, toothpaste, shampoo/conditioner, shovel, rake,weedwacker, copy paper, thank you cards, volunteers, volunteers, volunteers!


     
     



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    Please note that replies to emails sent to safelineinfo@safelinevt.org may take 2 - 3 days for a response. To reach an advocate immediately, please call 1-800-639-7233.


     
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